Blog

July 28, 2010 | 2 comments

Every year, toward the end of July, I become nostalgic and a little depressed.  In years past, I’d be gearing up for the scenic drive north to visit my parents in Brookings, Oregon – with my three children in tow and plans to arrive on Mom’s August 3 birthday.  Mom always had a jar full of freshly-baked chocolate chip cookies and a big pot of stew waiting for us.

Dad’s health was always precarious, and he often stayed home to rest while Mom and I took the wild ones to the beaches to run off some steam.  While they explored tide pools at Lone Ranch, or collected rocks and drift wood at Whaleshead, Mom and I sat and talked and talked… and talked. 

There are still times when I reach for the phone and realize again – achingly – that she can’t pick up on the other end.  I’ll have to wait until I get to Heaven to see her and Dad again. 

I wonder if there will be beaches.

Read More | Leave a comment or a question
July 14, 2010 | 7 comments

My brother and sister-in-law live on sixteen acres in gorgeous Northern California.  The closest town has a population of less than five thousand.  After once through town with its “hemp store”, I now take the scenic highway west -- two very narrow lanes of windy, hilly, tree-lined road.  As if ten miles weren’t far enough from civilization, my brother and SIL chose a place a mile off the road – across a narrow metal bridge with no side railing suspended over a twenty foot ravine with rocky creek bed below.  The bridge is just wide enough to accommodate a pick-up truck.  UPS drivers refuse to make deliveries and leave their parcels with neighbors.

We don’t get to visit often, but we email frequently.  I keep telling him he should write a column for one of the big city newspapers about the life of an urbanite transplanted in rural America.  He writes of “long-eared rats”(deer) invading his garden, shoot outs on main street between rival...

Read More | Leave a comment or a question
July 10, 2010 | 14 comments

I just received an ARC (advanced readers’ copy) of the second half of Marta’s Legacy.   The cover is gorgeous!  This book continues Marta and Hildemara’s stories and brings in the next two generations -- Carolyn and May Flower Dawn, whose lives span the 50s to present day.  This half of Marta’s Legacy will reveal the rifts and chasms between these mothers and daughters and what it takes to build bridges to bring them together again.   Her Daughter’s Dream will be in stores mid-September. 

Read More | Leave a comment or a question
July 4, 2010 | 9 comments

 

Certain foods bring back wonderful family memories of dinners.  Grandma Wulff always fixed “More” when I visited her at the farm.  The recipe calls for sautéed onions,  browned ground beef, cooked elbow pasta, corn, peas, chopped tomatoes and tomato sauce and spices all mixed together and then topped with cheese (or ketchup).  My brother and I called it “More” because we always wanted more.  Grandma also fixed “pull-apart” bread.  She made dough from scratch, let it rise, punch it down, let it rise again, took bits and roll them into balls, covered them with butter, cinnamon, chopped nuts and raisins and put them in a pan and let them rise again before baking.   We’d sit around the table talking as we pulled off hunks of gooey sweet bread.

My dad favored Grandma’s angel food cakes.  Mom loved her candied almonds. 

Whenever I packed our three children into the car and headed north to Oregon for a visit with...

Read More | Leave a comment or a question
June 29, 2010 | 5 comments

Rick and I returned a few weeks ago from three weeks in Europe, two in France traveling by boat up the Rhone River, by bus to Paris and then another boat on the Seine.  The land through which my grandmother traveled is much like Sonoma County, California where we live – though California lacks the majestic cathedrals that took men centuries to build, castles filled with history, Roman Aqueducts and roads from ancient times. 

We both wanted to see Normandy.  My father was in the third wave as an Army Captain, serving as a medic.  His unit also went into Germany and assisted in liberating a concentration camp.  Before the war, Dad dreamed of being a doctor.  After the war, he went into law enforcement instead. Though Mom would like to have made a heritage trip to Europe, Dad never wanted to step foot on foreign soil again -- nor would he talk about what he had seen at Normandy or the camp in Germany. 

Standing on the beach where...

Read More | Leave a comment or a question
June 23, 2010 | 13 comments

We all have our favorite places in the world.  Home is number one.  Whenever Rick and I travel, we love seeing new places and meeting new people.  But within two to three weeks, we’re hankering for home, missing our own bed, living room, kitchen – and, of course, family.  Then, within a few weeks, we’re dreaming about the next place we’d like to explore. 

One place draws me back time after time:  Fort Bragg, California.  The Mendocino coastline of California is spectacular and draws people from all over the world.  Most tourists are familiar with Mendocino, a quaint Victorian lumbering town with its tall New England style steeple and rugged coast.  Ten miles north is my favorite northern California seacoast town, Fort Bragg.  (My character, Dynah from The Atonement Child, spends significant time there.) Rick and I have stayed numerous times at the Harbor Lite on the Noyo River.  Every room has a...

Read More | Leave a comment or a question
June 19, 2010 | 20 comments

I ran into this problem when Rick’s birthday rolled around this year.  After 40 years together, I couldn’t think of one thing he wanted or needed.  When I asked him what he would like for his birthday, he shrugged.  Neither of us needs more “stuff”.   He reads several books a week.  So who is to know which one he hasn’t yet read?  He has all the clothes he needs, and he’s still locked in the same style he wore back in high school.  Levis.  Hensley shirts.  OP shorts (when we can find them). I tried to imagine him in some of the low-hanging pants boys wear these days and had a good laugh. 

My daughter, Shannon, came up with a wonderful idea on what to give the man who has everything:  write down 10-20 things you love about your husband.  I found a nice box and started making up small cards.  I didn’t stop with 20.  I didn’t stop until the box was too full to close.  And guess what?  The gift...

Read More | Leave a comment or a question
June 14, 2010 | 4 comments

I’ve been thinking about all the pets I’ve had over the years – dogs and cats.  They become a part of the family.  We’ll have quite a menagerie when we get to Heaven.  The first family dog I remember is Dusty, a female German Shepherd who rode herd on me when I was preschool age.  (There will be a picture of the two of us in Her Daughter’s Dream in September.)  After Dusty came Bullet, named after Roy Rogers’ loyal canine companion.  Bullet saved me from a neighbor dog.  I have never seen such a fight like that, nor do I ever want to see another.  The other dog was larger, but Bullet was faster and smarter.  When he got the other dog by the throat, my dad had to make him let go.

Bullet lived to the ripe old age of sixteen.  Mom and Dad had him cremated.  They couldn’t seem to part with him.  They kept his ashes in a box with a bronze plaque on top.  He spent the next two decades on the bookshelf. ...

Read More | Leave a comment or a question
June 8, 2010 | 10 comments

 

After five weeks of missing Shabah, we gave in and bought another German Shepherd.  Sergeant Fur-face Rivers, “Sarge”, is now asleep under my desk, worn out from his first obedience and socialization class at the local university campus.  I am just beginning to realize what a job is ahead of me if I want a well- manner, well-adjusted, friendly canine. 

We’ve had three German Shepherds, each with distinct personalities.

Hercules (named for the C-130 aircraft) was all Alpha.  People moved to the other side of the street when I walked him around the neighborhood.  He was one hundred and twenty pounds of muscle and attitude.   One large black dog made the mistake of charging across the street.  Hercules stood at my side quietly waiting.  When the dog lunged, Hercules went over the top of him and nailed him on the back of the neck.  If I hadn’t had one of those inside spike collars, he would have held on....

Read More | Leave a comment or a question
May 31, 2010 | 11 comments

My mother was frugal.  She seldom bought clothes for herself.  She spent most of her life in a nurse’s uniform.  The minute she got home, she headed for the shower.  Tossing her uniform into the washing machine, she changed into “work clothes” -- inexpensive paint-stained polyester pants and shirts she made herself.  She had one blouse pattern she liked and reused it over the years.  She also made skirts and tops.  The only “store-bought” dress I remember was a black and white herringbone with a fitted top and straight skirt.  It looked very nice on her, but she wore it so often, we all complained.  Finally, we all plotted and got rid of it.  Dad gave her something equally nice.  But it’s strange. After all these years, the one dress I remember Mom wearing is that one. 

Did your parents have a favorite style? 

Read More | Leave a comment or a question