The Scarlet Thread - Discussion Guide

In your opinion, what was/were the cause(s) for the family problems that Sierra and Alex were having? How did Sierra and Alex contribute to their own problems? What efforts were made to resolve their differences?

Compare Sierra and Mary Kathryn. How are they similar? different? How did their communication skills affect their relationships?

How do you rate your own communication skills?

Scriptures to Think About:

Some people make cutting remarks, but the words of the wise bring healing (Proverbs 12:18).

Everyone enjoys a fitting reply; it is wonderful to say the right thing at the right time! (Proverbs 15:23)

Contrast Alex with James. What self-perceived inadequacies did they operate under? How did this thinking affect their decisions and choices?

What perceived inadequacies motivate your decisions?

Scriptures to Think About:

Fearing people is a dangerous trap, but to trust the Lord means safety (Proverbs 29:25).

Fire tests the purity of silver and gold, but the Lord tests the heart (Proverbs 17:3).

In what ways are Ron Peirozo and Kavanaugh alike? How are they different from Alex and James? Why are they appealing?

Scriptures to Think About:

It is better to be patient than powerful; it is better to have self-control than to conquer a city (Proverbs 16:32).

Pride ends in humiliation, while humility brings honor (Proverbs 29:23).

Whom did God use to get Sierra’s attention? How did she respond? Whom did God use with Mary Kathryn and what was her response?

How has God used people in your life to draw you to Himself? What actions did you take in response?

Scriptures to Think About:

A friend is always loyal, and a brother is born to help in time of need (Proverbs 17:17).

When you bow down before the Lord and admit your dependence on him, he will lift you up and give you honor (James 4:10).

Discuss God’s faithfulness to Alex and Sierra. In what ways did God demonstrate His faithfulness to Mary Kathryn and Kavanaugh?

As you look back over your life, how has God been drawing you to Himself? In the midst of failures or brokenness, how has God been faithful to you? Can you see His scarlet thread of love making you fit for eternity?

Scriptures to Think About:

Remember, O Lord, your unfailing love and compassion, which you have shown from long ages past (Psalm 25:6).

And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them. For God knew his people in advance. . . . And having chosen them, he called them to come to him (Romans 8:28-30).